Category Archives: relationships

When is it better to keep your mouth shut?

I don’t hold people responsible for the reactions or emotions of others, and I do embrace a “say what you need to say” attitude in general.  But here are some situations in which I believe it’s better to keep one’s mouth shut! WHEN YOU KNOW YOU’RE FULL OF SHIT DON’T KNOW WHAT YOU’RE TALKING ABOUT… […]

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You cook, I’ll do dishes:  Unravelling the politics and subtext of household chores

The equitable division of household chores is a major arena for marital conflict.  A couple’s ability to successfully negotiate and communicate about the mundane parts of home life is vital.  Here’s how I see it… An equitable divide doesn’t mean two equal halves.  There is evidence that couples who split chores right down the middle have less […]

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