Blog Posts written by Lynda Martens

Should I stay or should I go? How to know if you should be in couples therapy, or on the road to separation and mediation

It used to be so simple; you met someone, you dated for a few years, you married, and that was your partner…forever.   Maybe that unquestioning commitment or tolerant solidarity helped some couples ride the tough times, but it also sentenced others to lifelong misery. With new-age thinking arrived a more disposable or enrichment-centered approach to […]

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How to Get Over Pretty Much Anything…

Is there something you keep ruminating or obsessing about?  Some event or person from the past you can’t get off your mind? I used to ruminate about conversations.  After a conversation that didn’t go the way I hoped, I’d spend days mulling it over in my head, imagining different (more intelligent/mature) things I might have […]

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