Monthly Archives: November 2010

Why am I upset about this? Finding perspective on problems…

Do you ever get upset about something and wonder whether it’s something you should be upset about, or something you should just get over?  Do you listen to your gut that might be telling you not to trust, or listen to your head that holds evidence contrary to the gut’s conclusion about the situation?  How […]

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Fighting Fair: How to Peacefully Resolve Conflict in a Relationship

I have often thought of making this into a flow chart…think of it as such.  The process starts with the question… “Who’s problem is this?”  at the top of the page.  If it is something that has you upset, it’s your problem.  If your partner is upset about something, it’s their problem, and if both of you are upset, then it’s shared.  The […]

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